Two charts: which of you
is draining the other
Same person, different partner — opposite conclusion.
Compatibility is not “do we fit”. It is two structures placed side by side: where they mesh, and where they grind. The same person matched against someone else can come out completely differently — which is why “I'm just not built for relationships” is a false statement.
Day master relations: feed, restrain, match, drain
Between two day masters there are only a few relations: I feed you, you feed me, I restrain you, you restrain me, or we are the same kind. The feeding side gives more; the restraining side leads more; the same kind is a mirror — easy to understand, easy to collide with. None is better, but each has its own fixed way of tiring you out.
Spouse palaces side by side: what “home” means to each of you
How the two day branches interact decides whether your picture of home agrees. One wants noise, one wants quiet. One treats home as a resupply station; one treats it as the only place they don't have to be armed. Where this doesn't match, the same argument returns in year three no matter how good the feeling was.
The three combinations that marry fastest and tire fastest
First: one person entirely carries the other — quick to marry, quick to wear out. Second: both are strong — rivals who ignite and consume each other. Third: one chases, one retreats — it looks the most like love and costs the most. Knowing which one you are in matters more than the score.
Your score, your wear points,
and who should yield
Unlock: the two charts compared · the wear points · the next three years
- Your structural score, and where the number comes from
- The three places conflict starts (down to specific incidents)
- Who should yield, and how far
- The next three years: two checkpoints for this relationship